The incarnation is worth celebrating, which is why The Common Rule recommends the seasonal habit of having a big party. Carols & Cocktails is a simple guide to help you blend parties and prayer. The instructions are simple. Throw a party and in the middle, call everyone together for 20 minutes in the middle to go through the songs and readings. Ideally, you should pick out three readers ahead of time and pick out someone to kick off the toasting. This will help the flow. Enjoy!